"To help students acquire the competencies of digital citizenship, we have to do more than make students sign an acceptable use policy statement or post technology usage rules in the computer lab (p. 126)"
This short quote means a lot to me. I have recently spent a lot of time being frustrated over the complete lack of education on internet usage that students I work with receive. I spend a lot of time around high school students who display a complete lack of etiquette when it comes to technology, both online and in the real world. However, what frustrates me even more is that many people seem to think these students should just know how to handle themselves on social media, or they should just know when is appropriate to text or call friends or surf the web. My colleague and I just discussed this the other day, actually, and she made a great point. She and I both came from the same generation of students who only just started using the internet when we were in high school. She pointed out that it seems our generation has always generally approached technology and the internet with caution, because for us it was new and exciting and dangerous. Students today were born into this era of technology. They do not have the same fears and reservations. Like any area in life, students need to be taught and guided to making the right choices. How are they to understand what is and is not acceptable when they aren't being taught?! I think schools should offer an entire class on this subject to YOUNG students, because kids today are using cell phones and social media at very young ages!
"More than 90% of American kids age 8 to 15 have seen online porn, and in fact, the porn industry takes active steps to attract children by "typo-squatting" -buying the domain names of frequently misspelled URLs. At least 265 names of cartoon characters are linked to porn sites...(p. 128)"
This quote completely shocked me. I never imagined the porn industry actively recruiting young children by preying on something as innocent as a typing error. This gives me chills, because it reminds me a lot of the current social climate surrounding sexism and the objectification of women. Most porn does an excellent job of pushing the objectification of women and reinforcing the rape culture that is present in our society. This is even more incentive for educators to want to teach our kids how to avoid these things. I don't think any parent is going to be able to wage war against the porn industry or the internet for that matter, and come out victorious on the other side. Instead, this is testament to the fact that we need to equip our kids with serious tools to navigate the infested waters that are the internet.
'Many teens maintain high levels of secrecy involving their online activities and will not admit exposure to offensive content or participation in problematic behaviors (p. 129)"
This doesn't shock me at all. I lived this. When I was in high school my family got our first desktop computer along with a connection to dial up internet. I quickly discovered chat rooms, and also discovered that I got A LOT of attention from chatters claiming to be males my age. One such chatter exchanged email addresses with me, and he sent an email that included the question "what color are your underwear?". I was so naive, I thought it was harmless flirtation. However, my parents found that email and did not take it so lightly. I would have never EVER told them about what I was doing on the internet, because I thought I had it all under control. When I reflect on that part of my life now, I feel scared for my former self. Who knows what kind of creep I could have been talking to? I thought everyone on the internet was legit! This leads me to think that we should never assume our children are too innocent to get into trouble and are equipped to make good decisions when faced with issues on the internet. We need to teach them how to avoid these dangerous interactions, and SHOW them what appropriate and acceptable interactions look like.

